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Monday, November 24, 2025

Deceptive Appearances


In Parshas Toldos we read about Eisav's deceptive acts towards his father, climaxing at the end of the Parsha, where he marries one of Yishmael's daughters in order to appear righteous in Yitzchak's eyes. 

Rashi, however, comments that in fact "he added wickedness upon his wickedness, in that he did not divorce the first ones" [28:9] - i.e. just like he had married his first wives in an attempt to appear righteous [26:34] so too here "he added wickedness upon wickedness" marrying once again, this time to a member of Avraham's family in order to maintain his deceptive veil of righteousness.

In the following Parsha, Vayeitzei, we read of another trickster, Lavan, who acted deceptively towards Yaakov. However, it could be argued that Eisav's deception towards his father reprsented a greater degree of moral corruption than the acts of Lavan, because Eisav actively promoted himself as a righteous person.  Lavan, on the other hand, may have acted deceptively, but he did not scheme to find ways of proving his righteousness to others.  He merely concealed his selfish and corrupt motives so Yaakov would not come to uncover his plans.

So, the Torah's description of Eisav here, at the end of Parshas Toldos, comes to warn us of the moral corruption which was exemplified by Eisav.  Here we are warned to steer clear of this lowly activity: promoting oneself as righteous while the truth is something very different indeed.

Source: Based on Likutei Sichos of the Lubavitcher Rebbe, The Gutnick Chumash

8 comments:

  1. I am guilty of some of the things stated here.

    However, i repent, but also fall again.. repent... fall... repent.. and so it goes.
    Trying ... doing better... but have to do more and more better..

    smrc

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  4. Devorah, not for publication, though you may have seen this already. The following has really shocked me, one of the biggest shocks of my life. I'm so confused.

    R' Yaron Reuven warning about R' Efraim Palvanov, including sources:
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ksE9uH-J2ZI
    Can this be for real??

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    1. Actually I'm very happy to publish this, and as you have no name you won't be known.
      Yes, it is real. I didn't know about R' Reuven's video so thank you for telling me.
      Very sad. I know.

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    2. and yes it is true. I was also shocked, although not as much as you, because I've been down this road before. I was more shocked at myself for not noticing it earlier.
      That is the danger..... 90% truth and then throw in a curve ball of nonsense, which people believe. That is exactly how I came to blog in the first place, because I was taken in by a guy teaching Torah, turned out he wasn't even Jewish.... and all the Jewish blogs were linking to his sites. Anyway, I busted him and he had to shut down his websites in the end. But I couldn't do it to Rabbi P. I left it all in G-d's Hands and seems it ended up with R' Reuven to do. Yasher koach.

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    3. I just listened to the video about Palvanov
      Urgent Warning Regarding Efraim Palvanov by Rabbi Yaron Reuven
      Everything he's saying is true, I can vouch for that.
      I'm sorry for all of us who were blind-sided by this.

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    4. I wasn't. He was invited to speak to our nishmat group, and that was enough for me. Just to be sure my binah was working properly I listened to one video on YouTube. Confirmation received. Since then I blocked him from my mind.

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