The Sukkah and the Heavenly Hug

 

Adapted from the Lubavitcher Rebbe’s teachings by Rabbi Y. Y. Jacobson

The Sukkah hut is frail and vulnerable, but its walls have basic specifications: They must be two full walls, plus a third wall of only 3.5 inches, measured in Hebrew as a ‘Tefach’ handbreadth. It’s okay to have 3 or 4 full walls; but the minimum is two plus a tiny bit of a third.

What is the spiritual significance of this tiny third handbreadth-size wall?

Anatomy of an Embrace

Two great Jewish thinkers, Rabbi Isaac Luria and Rabbi Schnuer Zalman of Liadi, turn our attention to the affectionate words uttered by the Bride in the Song of Songs: "His left arm is under my head, and His right arm embraces me."

These metaphors address two distinct moments in the relationship between G-d, the Groom, and His people, the Bride. During the Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur "days of awe," G-d's "left arm," as it were, is under the head of Israel. The left side represents introspection, strict discipline and awe.

Sukkos, on the other hand, is "the time of our joy," when “G-d's right arm embraces me."

Our arm is divided into 3 sections. The first is the arm itself, from the shoulder to the elbow; the second is the forearm, from the elbow to the wrist; and the third is from the wrist to the fingertips.

Our Sukkah walls represent the "right arm's embrace." The first full wall represents a Divine embrace from the "shoulder" to the "elbow;" the second wall reflects the "forearm," and the third tiny wall symbolizes the palm’s embrace.

Expressions of Love

There are three ways of expressing love.

The first is words. "I love you," when uttered sincerely, has impact. A second, more powerful expression of love is a kiss. A genuine kiss expresses a deep intense feeling that may not be grasped in words. Words can state, "I love you," while a kiss declares, "I love you more then I will ever be able to tell you."

An embrace is a third expression of love.

Dissecting the Hug

Which form of love do children cherish most?

Children enjoy being spoken to. They certainly take pleasure from being kissed. Yet, most children, especially infants, cherish being hugged. When our children hurt themselves or break something, they cry and come running to their parents for a hug to calm them down and to restore their confidence.

Two significant features set apart an embrace from the other "love communicators."

Affection is directed primarily toward the face of the beloved. You speak to one's face, kiss one's cheeks or lips, or gaze at one's eyes. An embrace involves the nape and back of the one being embraced.

Another feature that distinguishes an embrace is the firm physical bond of a hug. When I utter words of love, even when I kiss, I am not holding on to you. But when I embrace you, even if you wish to escape my embrace, you are "trapped" in my gripping hug; I don't let you tear yourself away from me.

Two forms of love

There is reciprocal love and unconditional love. The first is directed to the face of the beloved one; the second is directed to the back of the beloved.

I may love you because of what I receive in return for my relationship. You may be wise, deep, sensitive, kind, beautiful, humorous, challenging etc. - qualities expressed through your face, eyes, ears and mouth - and I love you because of these or other qualities that enrich my life.

This type of love is communicated in words of affection, or in a kiss, directed toward the face of the beloved, the primary location of reciprocity. Expressing my attachment in these forms shows that I cherish you because of your qualities.

This love may be deep and can bestow blessings and fulfillment. Yet it is conditional on reciprocity. As long as you are here for me, I am here for you. In essence, I love you because I love myself, and you make my "self" so much deeper and happier.

Yet there is a deeper love of an embrace, in which my arms encircle your backside. The hug represents an unconditional, unqualified and absolute love. It is not about your face, it is about your back, an area lacking meaningful reciprocity. I don't love you because of me; I love you because of you. You may not give me anything in return for my love, you may even want me out of your life, but I still love you with all my heart.

Do you embrace your children?

That’s why children need their parents to embrace them.

When children get hurt or break something, they are searching for affirmation that their validity was not compromised. They are yearning to hear that their value does not depend on them being perfect and impeccable, but that their dignity is absolute. "Show me," asks the child, "that you love me unconditionally because of who I am and not because of what I achieve."

When a child cries because their finger is bleeding, and you simply place a band aid on the wound and go away, you may have forfeited the opportunity to teach your child the most important lesson: Your dignity stems from your very being. Even when you will fall in life and bleed badly, your very being and identity is indispensable.

We also relate to G-d on these two levels.

All year around, G-d's light relates to us as a result of the choices we make. The more we rise to the higher truth, the more we hear G-d’s silent voice resonating in our souls.

Throughout the year, we experience G-d's presence only through our efforts and toil to refine our behavior. When we meditate, pray, reflect, study and live morally and holy, we catch a glimpse of G-d's love toward us. When I work against my immoral temptations and cravings, I can at times sense a reciprocal kiss from G-d.

Throughout the year, we enjoy a reciprocal relationship with G-d. G-d might talk to you, He may even kiss you or gaze at you, but You must show Him your face. If you don't turn your back on Him, He will be there for you.

But during Sukkot, G-d shares His love unconditionally and embraces us.

We eat, drink, chat, and relax in a Sukkah- all mundane activities with little spirituality. Yet when performed in the Sukkah, these acts are a Mitzvah, a medium through which we relate to Him.

The Sukkah walls are saying: I love and cherish you not because of what you do for me or because of what I gain from you. I am attached to you not because of your spiritual sophistication or because of your noble pursuits. I love you because I love you. I am one with you as you are. I am in love with your very core.

So for a real good hug, spend time in a Sukkah.

Sustaining the Embrace
Each Jewish holiday leaves us with a special energy that affects the entire year. This Divine “hug” even while we are in a physical mode, empowers and inspires us to transform our physical and mundane endeavors throughout the year into tools through which to bring Divine light into the world.

Of Doctors, Fish and Moshiach

Talmud Sanhedrin 98a "Mashiach ben Dovid will not arrive until someone seeks a fish for a sick person and cannot find one."

Rabbi Glazerson shows the Torah Codes relating to the above passage in Talmud Sanhedrin 98a, connecting it to the current doctors' strike in Israel, the suffering of the sick, and the imminent coming of Moshiach iy'"H...... including the signs of the present time where situations are quickly changing, clearly showing us that "before the world of truth can come, the world of lies must disappear....." [Rav Kook]

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VP Biden with Rabbi Levi & Nechama Shemtov

Vice President Joe Biden held a Rosh Hashanah reception Wednesday, October 5, for a group of American Jewish leaders at his US Naval Observatory residence in Washington, DC.

The annual reception made headlines after it was reported that several attendees pressed Biden to meet with them to discuss the case of Jonathan Pollard, a former civilian intelligence analyst who was convicted of spying for Israel.

The New York Times earlier reported that during a meeting in Florida, Biden told a group of rabbis that "President Obama was considering clemency, but I told him, 'Over my dead body are we going to let him out before his time.'"

Malcolm Hoenlein, the executive vice chairman of the Conference of Presidents of Major American Jewish Organizations, and many others have called on successive American presidents to grant clemency to Pollard, who was sentenced to life in prison in 1987.

In recent months, Obama received a flood of clemency appeals on behalf of Pollard from members of Congress, former U.S. government officials and Israeli officials, according to JTA.

Pollard recently underwent kidney-related surgery that was deemed successful.

Hoenlein said the vice president apparently agreed to hold a small meeting in order to have an "open and frank discussion" about the issue, JTA reported.

Present at the reception were Rabbi Levi Shemtov, Director of American Friends of Lubavitch in Washington, DC, and his wife Nechama.

Biden warmly greeted Rabbi and Mrs. Shemtov and after chatting briefly, asked him to convey to Rabbi Avraham Shemtov his wish for a "happy new year."

The senior Rabbi Shemtov, Chairman of the international umbrella organization, Agudas Chassidei Chabad and Head Shliach in Philadelphia, has a long standing friendship with Biden going back to when when he was a US Senator from the neighboring state of Delaware, which was obvious at the Living Legacy Conference in Washington in honor of Gimmel Tammuz 5770 attended by hundreds of shluchim and supporters, whom the Vice President hosted at the White House as part of the tribute to the Rebbe.

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Off Track

 

"The Torah that Moshe commanded us" [Vezot HaBerachah 33:4]

The Chofetz Chaim entered the beis midrash and saw a group of students standing around, squandering away their precious time in an idle discussion.

"I would like to tell you boys a story" said the Chofetz Chaim.  "It is a story about a man who lost his mind and began to dismantle the railroad tracks that passed near his city."

"What are you doing?" people screamed.  "You are going to cause a terrible catastrophe."

"Why is that?" laughed the man.  "This railroad track is hundreds of miles long, and I am only removing several yards of it."

"The same applies to the Torah" concluded the Chofetz Chaim.  "The Torah has been transmitted to us from generation to generation.  One who wasted his time instead of studying is similar to the individual who removed several yards from an extremely long track."

"While he may have wasted only a short amount of time, the damage he will have caused will be very great indeed."

Source: Rabbi Yisrael Bronstein

One Long Holiday

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The Rosh Hashana, Yom Kippur, and Succos Connection

The Baalei Mussar say that the three Yomim Tovim in Tishrei, Rosh Hashana, Yom Kippur, and Succos are all one long continuous Yom Tov, all with the purpose of fully returning to Hashem.

Rosh Hashana is the day we start this process by reflecting and contemplating where it is that we stand in our relationship with Hashem. After realizing that we are not where we should be and how far we have drifted, we spend the week between Rosh Hashana and Yom Kippur regretting and repairing the damage. On Yom Kippur Hashem forgives us and we start our relationship anew.

Succos we leave our home and go on a second honeymoon where we enjoy Hashem's company in Hashem's honeymoon getaway; alone together in the quiet of the succah, free from the distractions of the rest of the world.

Source: Revach L'Neshama

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Honey Cake: Segula for Parnossa

On the morning of the day before Yom Kippur each person asks another for a piece of lekach [Yiddish for "cake" - traditionally honey cake], and eats it. Many Rabbis observe this custom by distributing lekach and giving a blessing for a good and sweet year.

Among the reasons for this custom is to avoid any possible Heavenly decree that the person would have to ask another for his food. Once one asks for lekach, the decree has been fulfilled and there will be no further need to ask: all one's needs will be provided for by G-d.

On a deeper level, we can say even more. Since the purpose of the custom is to avoid having to receive good from a person, it is logical to say that even the lekach is not really being received from a person. The explanation of this is that in reality, all food comes from G-d, and therefore a poor person who receives food from another person thanks G-d - "Who provides nourishment and sustenance for all". This is because the giver is only an intermediary for delivering G-d's blessings.

However, both parties still feel that a transaction has taken place between two human beings. The poor person naturally feels some sense of shame, as seen from the fact that we all ask in birchas hamazon "please do not make us dependent upon the gifts of mortal men". The giver also feels that he is the giver; and the Torah therefore must stress to him that he must give generously etc.

The giving of lekach on Erev Yom Kippur is not like this, however. Since these are the days when G-d is "close", all parties involved feel that G-d Himself is doing the giving, and the giver is no more than a messenger. Even more so, the giver is not even seen as a messenger, but just a link enabling G-d's gift to come to the person. For this reason, the giver needs no warning, since he naturally gives generously, as G-d Himself gives. Similarly, the recipient feels no shame and takes the lekach not out of need, but in order to fulfill the custom.

On a yet deeper level, one can assume that everyone has already been signed and inscribed for a good year on Rosh Hashanah. One need not take special measures to avoid a possible decree, since we are confident that there is no such decree. What, then, is the purpose of taking lekach?

Perhaps the explanation is that in the past year either the giver or the taker did not have the proper awareness that everything really comes from G-d. By requesting (and giving) lekach, this realisation is reinforced, and the shortcoming of the past year corrected.Torah is also called "lekach" as in the verse [Proverbs 4:2] "Lekach tov nasati lachem". In addition, p'nimiyus haTorah (the inner dimension of the Torah) is compared to honey. And since "G-d and His Torah are one", giving the lekach together with Torah helps strengthen the bond between the Jew and G-d. This in turn helps one realise that G-d is really the giver, not man. The inner part of Torah which bonds the innermost part of the Jewish soul to the innermost levels of G-dliness accomplishes this to an even greater extent.

Source: Sichos in English: The Lubavitcher Rebbe 

Honey Cake
250g honey
2 small eggs
3/4 cups caster sugar
1/2 cup oil
vanilla essence

Mix all ingredients together well, then add:

3/4 cup self raising flour
3/4 cup plain flour
3/4 teaspoon bicarbonate of soda
2 tablespoons cocoa
3/4 cup very hot water [with the bicarb and cocoa dissolved in it]

Pour into large pan and bake at 180 degrees until firm and skewer comes out clean.

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